Greetings!
'You should have a reason for waking up every morning. The reason that will give a meaning to your life, the reason that will make you different from the rest, the reason that will fire up the inner peace in you, the reason that can rebuild the world.'
Steve Jobs was one of the most successful and intelligent person ever survived. He was usually obnoxious to his co-workers. He fires his employees even for minor infractions but had learned to remain calm over time. Most of the experts say that the calmness inside him took birth after his journey to Japan. Japanese culture gives light to his life.
You might be thinking How? Why? When? What?
NO WORRIES!
In the next 10 min, we'll solve most of your life problems. Here we will discuss the ways to be calm and happy even after dozen of bad luck. Keep your brain ready to hijack the points.
1.Never be jealous of someone success:
When your friends or sibling achieves more and better than us, We have 2 things to do, either be jealous of them or work hard to achieve better than them.
Most of us choose to be jealous because working hard will bring us out of our comfort zone.
2. Happy relationships:
As per the survey conducted by Haward, happy relationships are the key to a happy life.
The relationship is a wide term that includes everything from family, friends, and neighbours.
Always try to maintain a healthy relationship with an understanding person.
3. Relaxations:
Relax....hahaha....what a word! Take a pause and enjoy every moment and pain of life.
Divert your mind from the pain. Stop over-thinking. Take a night of good sleep. As per scientists, our body recovers from sleep.
4. Keep the boundaries:
This is the biggest mistake that a person can ever commit.
Always keep boundaries. Never share things beyond that boundaries.
You should know what to share, how much to share, and to whom to share.
Keep the boundaries for yourself and others and never break them.
5.Be honest, brutally honest:
Be honest....always be honest. It may offend others sometimes but in long run, it will be beneficial for you and others.
6.Learn to say no:
A person who is busy making others happy will always be dismal.
That's why learn to say no.
If after accepting a responsibility you will not be committed to it, you will end up losing your relationship.
7.Don't take everything for yourself:
No one has time to think about you. No one gives a shit about what you are doing. So please don't take all the things for yourself.
8. Make your work easy:
Try to make your difficult task into a small task.
People do easy tasks and make them hard. After completing it they believe that something hard is achieved by them.
9. Be productive, not hardworking:
Yes, you may do several tasks but never forget to do the quality work. In search of quantity, one must not lose the quality.
10. Be committed:
Be committed to the work and people. You should have feelings for the work that you are doing.
Being committed will only give you top-order satisfaction.
11. Don't try to indulge in other's problems:
Don't try to engulf someone's life. Here, I am not saying be selfish. Yes, you should hear the problem and support that person. There is no need to advise someone.
12. Value life:
Life is one, don't waste it. Value your life. Cherish every moment. Do what you like. Do whatever is needed to be happy.
Thank nature and god for every moment.
13. Self-awareness:
Live in present. Be conscious about what you are doing and what could be the possible outcome of it.
Ex:
The situation is that, that you have not completed your assignment and have to submit it the next day. Instead of completing the assignment, you are chatting with your friends.
A self-aware mind will start the work in the next min. But if you love to live in a fantasy world you will never be able to finish your work on time.
14. Read positive vibe
Do you read books?
No!
Then you are wasting your life and time. Yea...this is rude but true. Start reading today.
Once you are finished reading this blog post take a look at 'Why should we read books?' where you will get the significance of reading in your life.
The above blog is inspired by one of the best sellers
By Shubham
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